In the beginning stages of a relationship, the power dynamic is ever fluctuating. This is always a good time to bring the jealousy card into play. Now, some people like to claim that they aren’t jealous individuals. If they are human, this is simply not true. Evolutionarily, we are competitive beings, and our biological drive is to “win” a monogamous claim on another individual. This is where jealousy comes into play. Some people don’t act on this jealousy, but that’s a different story. Using jealousy to dictate the terms of the power dynamic is a cunt’s specialty. An easy way to do this is to flaunt your options in front of each other. Invite Option #1 out for drinks, and conveniently have Option #2 meet you at the same locale for dinner. Options meet in passing, and size each other up. Your worth and value are instantly increased in both of their eyes, and you are now a more valuable commodity, holding more power. Wield it wisely though…no one likes a whore.

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